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\u300c\u611b\u4e0d\u6703\u50cf\u77f3\u982d\u4e00\u6a23\u975c\u975c\u5f85\u5728\u90a3\u88e1;\u5b83\u5fc5\u9808\u88ab\u88fd\u4f5c\u51fa\u4f86,\u50cf\u9eb5\u5305\u4e00\u6a23,\u4e0d\u65b7\u91cd\u65b0\u88fd\u4f5c,\u4e0d\u65b7\u63a8\u9673\u51fa\u65b0\u3002\u300d<\/p>\u5a25\u8607\u62c9\u30fb\u52d2\u7470\u6069(Ursula K. Le Guin), \u300a\u5929\u5802\u7684\u8f5f\u9cf4\u300b(The Lathe of Heaven,1971\u5e74)<\/em> (1971)<\/cite><\/blockquote>\n\n\n\n

\u52d2\u7470\u6069\u628a\u9019\u53e5\u8a71\u5beb\u9032\u4e00\u90e8\u79d1\u5e7b\u5c0f\u8aaa\u88e1,\u4e3b\u89d2\u662f\u500b\u5922\u5883\u80fd\u6539\u8b8a\u73fe\u5be6\u7684\u7537\u4eba\u2014\u2014\u9019\u5c0d\u4e00\u53e5\u611b\u60c5\u91d1\u53e5\u4f86\u8aaa\u662f\u500b\u5947\u7279\u7684\u51fa\u8655,\u4f46\u4e5f\u6b63\u56e0\u5982\u6b64,\u5b83\u624d\u80fd\u5728\u8b80\u8005\u5fc3\u4e2d\u7559\u5b58\u8d85\u904e\u534a\u4e16\u7d00\u4e4b\u4e45\u3002\u9019\u53e5\u8a71\u5426\u5b9a\u4e86\u300c\u611b\u4e00\u65e6\u7a69\u56fa\u5c31\u6703\u81ea\u884c\u5ef6\u7e8c\u300d\u9019\u7a2e\u60f3\u6cd5\u3002\u9eb5\u5305\u6703\u8b8a\u9673;\u7121\u4eba\u6253\u7406\u7684\u611f\u60c5\u540c\u6a23\u6703\u8b8a\u8cea\u3002\u6bd4\u8d77\u5927\u591a\u6578\u5a5a\u79ae\u795d\u9152\u8a5e,\u9019\u500b\u6bd4\u55bb\u66f4\u5be6\u7528,\u56e0\u70ba\u5b83\u6697\u793a\u4e86\u4e00\u4efd\u5177\u9ad4\u7684\u529f\u8ab2\u6e05\u55ae\u3002<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u300c\u611b\u5c31\u662f\u611b,\u4e0d\u662f\u5c31\u4e0d\u662f\u3002\u7a00\u8584\u7684\u611b\u6839\u672c\u7a31\u4e0d\u4e0a\u611b\u3002\u300d<\/p>\u585e\u7d72(Sethe),\u51fa\u81ea\u7ae5\u59ae\u30fb\u6469\u91cc\u68ee(Toni Morrison)\u7684 \u300a\u5bf5\u5152\u300b(Beloved,1987\u5e74)<\/em> (1987)<\/cite><\/blockquote>\n\n\n\n

\u9019\u88e1\u7684\u8108\u7d61\u5f88\u91cd\u8981:\u9019\u4e26\u975e\u6469\u91cc\u68ee\u672c\u4eba\u6240\u9673\u8ff0\u7684\u4eba\u751f\u54f2\u5b78,\u800c\u662f\u5979\u7b46\u4e0b\u89d2\u8272\u585e\u7d72\u8aaa\u51fa\u7684\u8a71\u2014\u2014\u7576\u4fdd\u7f85\u30fbD(Paul D)\u5c0d\u5979\u8aaa,\u5979\u5c0d\u5b69\u5b50\u7684\u611b\u300c\u592a\u6fc3\u70c8\u300d\u6642,\u5979\u5982\u6b64\u53cd\u99c1\u3002\u6469\u91cc\u68ee\u85c9\u6b64\u53cd\u5c0d\u300c\u611b\u61c9\u8a72\u70ba\u4e86\u8eab\u908a\u4eba\u7684\u8212\u9069\u800c\u88ab\u7bc0\u5236\u300d\u9019\u7a2e\u60f3\u6cd5\u3002\u812b\u96e2\u60c5\u7bc0\u4f86\u770b,\u9019\u53e5\u8a71\u50cf\u4e00\u53e5\u53e3\u865f\u8cbc\u7d19;\u4f46\u653e\u56de\u5c0f\u8aaa\u8108\u7d61\u88e1,\u5b83\u662f\u5c0d\u300c\u8981\u5979\u5c11\u611b\u4e00\u9ede\u300d\u9019\u7a2e\u7d42\u751f\u6559\u8aa8\u7684\u53cd\u64ca\u3002<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u5148\u7406\u89e3,\u624d\u88ab\u7406\u89e3<\/h2>\n\n\n\n

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\u9019\u53e5\u8a71\u51fa\u81ea\u300c\u7fd2\u6163\u4e94:\u77e5\u5f7c\u89e3\u5df1\u300d\u2014\u2014\u67ef\u7dad\u7684\u8ad6\u9ede\u662f,\u76f8\u611b\u7684\u4eba\u4e4b\u9593\u5927\u591a\u6578\u7684\u722d\u57f7,\u5176\u5be6\u4e26\u975e\u4e8b\u5be6\u4e0a\u7684\u5206\u6b67,\u800c\u662f\u96d9\u65b9\u5728\u5c0d\u65b9\u9084\u5728\u8aaa\u8a71\u6642,\u5c31\u5df2\u7d93\u5728\u5fc3\u88e1\u6f14\u7df4\u81ea\u5df1\u7684\u53cd\u99c1\u3002\u9019\u53e5\u539f\u672c\u51fa\u81ea\u7ba1\u7406\u5b78\u66f8\u7c4d\u7684\u8a71,\u4e4b\u6240\u4ee5\u88ab\u642c\u9032\u611f\u60c5\u5efa\u8b70\u4e4b\u4e2d,\u662f\u56e0\u70ba\u540c\u6a23\u7684\u8a3a\u65b7\u5728\u5169\u500b\u9818\u57df\u90fd\u6210\u7acb:\u4f34\u4fb6\u4e4b\u9593\u5f88\u5c11\u662f\u56e0\u70ba\u60e1\u610f\u800c\u5f7c\u6b64\u50b7\u5bb3,\u800c\u662f\u56e0\u70ba\u300c\u6709\u807d\u6c92\u6709\u61c2\u300d\u3002<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u300c\u7406\u89e3\u662f\u611b\u7684\u672c\u8cea\u3002\u5982\u679c\u4f60\u7121\u6cd5\u7406\u89e3,\u5c31\u7121\u6cd5\u53bb\u611b\u3002\u300d<\/p>\u4e00\u884c\u79aa\u5e2b(Thich Nhat Hanh), \u300a\u771f\u611b:\u559a\u9192\u5fc3\u9748\u7684\u4fee\u7fd2\u300b(True Love: A Practice for Awakening the Heart,2006\u5e74)<\/em> (2006)<\/cite><\/blockquote>\n\n\n\n

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\u4f34\u4fb6\u95dc\u4fc2\u4e2d\u7684\u7368\u7acb\u81ea\u4e3b<\/h2>\n\n\n\n

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\u300c\u611b,\u5c31\u5728\u65bc\u5169\u500b\u5b64\u7368\u7684\u9748\u9b42\u5f7c\u6b64\u5b88\u8b77\u3001\u5f7c\u6b64\u89f8\u78b0\u3001\u5f7c\u6b64\u81f4\u610f\u3002\u300d<\/p>\u840a\u7d0d\u30fb\u746a\u5229\u4e9e\u30fb\u91cc\u723e\u514b(Rainer Maria Rilke), \u300a\u7d66\u9752\u5e74\u8a69\u4eba\u7684\u4fe1\u300b(Letters to a Young Poet)<\/em>,\u7b2c\u4e03\u5c01\u4fe1(\u5beb\u65bc1904\u5e74,1929\u5e74\u51fa\u7248)<\/cite><\/blockquote>\n\n\n\n

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\u300c\u5f7c\u6b64\u76f8\u611b,\u4f46\u4e0d\u8981\u8b93\u611b\u6210\u70ba\u675f\u7e1b:\u8b93\u5b83\u6210\u70ba\u4f60\u5011\u9748\u9b42\u5169\u5cb8\u4e4b\u9593\u6d41\u52d5\u7684\u6d77\u6d0b\u2026\u2026\u5f7c\u6b64\u9760\u8fd1,\u4f46\u4e0d\u8981\u9760\u5f97\u592a\u8fd1:\u56e0\u70ba\u795e\u6bbf\u7684\u6a11\u67f1,\u4e5f\u662f\u5f7c\u6b64\u5206\u958b\u800c\u7acb\u7684\u3002\u300d<\/p>\u7d00\u4f2f\u502b(Kahlil Gibran), \u300a\u5148\u77e5\u300b(The Prophet)<\/em>,\u3008\u8ad6\u5a5a\u59fb\u3009(1923\u5e74)<\/cite><\/blockquote>\n\n\n\n

\u7d00\u4f2f\u502b\u9019\u672c\u66f8\u5728\u5a5a\u79ae\u4e0a\u88ab\u6717\u8b80\u7684\u6b21\u6578,\u5927\u6982\u591a\u904e\u4efb\u4f55\u5176\u4ed6\u6587\u672c\u2014\u2014\u4f46\u9019\u5176\u5be6\u6709\u9ede\u8af7\u523a,\u56e0\u70ba\u66f8\u4e2d\u6838\u5fc3\u8ad6\u9ede\u6b63\u662f\u53cd\u5c0d\u300c\u4f54\u6709\u300d\u3002\u3008\u8ad6\u5a5a\u59fb\u3009\u4e00\u7bc7,\u662f\u5148\u77e5\u963f\u7a46\u65af\u5854\u6cd5(Almustafa)\u56de\u61c9\u4e00\u4f4d\u65b0\u5a18\u8acb\u6559\u5a5a\u59fb\u4e4b\u9053\u800c\u5beb\u7684,\u800c\u4ed6\u7684\u7b54\u6848\u5176\u5be6\u662f\u4e00\u5247\u8b66\u544a:\u4e0d\u8981\u8b93\u5a5a\u59fb\u9019\u500b\u5236\u5ea6,\u62b9\u53bb\u7576\u521d\u8b93\u5169\u500b\u4eba\u5f7c\u6b64\u8457\u8ff7\u7684\u90a3\u6bb5\u8ddd\u96e2\u3002\u90a3\u500b\u5efa\u7bc9\u610f\u8c61\u2014\u2014\u67f1\u5b50\u5206\u958b\u800c\u7acb,\u537b\u5171\u540c\u6490\u8d77\u540c\u4e00\u7247\u5c4b\u9802\u2014\u2014\u4e0d\u53ea\u662f\u8aaa\u5f97\u597d\u807d,\u800c\u662f\u771f\u6b63\u767c\u63ee\u4e86\u4f5c\u7528\u3002<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u300c\u611b,\u9996\u5148\u4e26\u4e0d\u662f\u8207\u67d0\u500b\u7279\u5b9a\u5c0d\u8c61\u7684\u95dc\u4fc2;\u5b83\u662f\u4e00\u7a2e\u614b\u5ea6,\u4e00\u7a2e\u6027\u683c\u4e0a\u7684\u53d6\u5411\u3002\u300d<\/p>\u57c3\u91cc\u5e0c\u30fb\u4f5b\u6d1b\u59c6(Erich Fromm), \u300a\u611b\u7684\u85dd\u8853\u300b(The Art of Loving,1956\u5e74)<\/em> (1956)<\/cite><\/blockquote>\n\n\n\n

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\u611b\u662f\u4e00\u7a2e\u6c7a\u5b9a,\u800c\u975e\u4e00\u7a2e\u611f\u89ba<\/h2>\n\n\n\n

\u300c\u611b\u662f\u4e00\u7a2e\u610f\u5fd7\u7684\u5c55\u73fe\u2014\u2014\u65e2\u662f\u610f\u5716,\u4e5f\u662f\u884c\u52d5\u3002\u300d<\/p>\u8c9d\u723e\u30fb\u80e1\u514b\u65af(bell hooks), \u300a\u95dc\u65bc\u611b\u7684\u4e00\u5207:\u5168\u65b0\u8996\u91ce\u300b(All About Love: New Visions,2000\u5e74)<\/em> (2000)<\/cite><\/blockquote>\n\n\n\n

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